Sunday, September 20, 2009

Uncle Johnny


Kelly just LOVES her Uncle Johnny! He has been working most of the past year up at Mammoth, so we don't get to see him as much. But when he is home for his short visits, we do try to see each other, and he always has to get his Kelly time. We miss him and hope to see him again at the holidays!

Saturday, September 5, 2009

The Value of Friendship...

There are so many things a parent wants to teach their child, but I think there are some things that really come to the surface... the things that are THE most important values the parent carries. One of those for me is friendship - choosing good friends to have around you and being a good friend.

It is only recently that Kelly seemed to take a real interest in which friends she wanted to spend time with. Somewhere between 3 & 4, this change occurred - she wasn't just spending time playing with these kids because us moms put them together for a play date, she truly wanted to be with them because SHE considered them her good friends, and she now asks to be with them. I am no longer just running my own social life, I am now the assistant social director for HER social life as well!

I think one of Kelly's first real good friends is Kainoa. She got to spend a lot of time with him during the two months of daycare at Chelsea's earlier this year. But even before that, in between and since then, they still love to see each other and start playing and chatting and having fun as if no time has passed - that is a quality that helps friends stay friends over long periods of time, even though things in their life change and keep them apart sometimes. Kainoa recently got a baby sister, Ocean Marie, and they are living a few miles further away, but they still love to see each other every chance they get.

Because of our 24/7 schedule, working Realtor moms often have to bring their kids with them to show homes or drop by the office. We've found it is always better if there is another kid involved to help keep them occupied. This is how the friendship started with Karlee - my friend and colleague, Isabel, would bring her daughter Karlee in with her now & then, so we started trying to overlap those times whenever possible to get them together and so we could get more work done at the same time. The very first time they met, they gave each other a big (adorable) hug! These two just dug each other instantly - they both have a great sense of silly, goofy humor and really love just hamming it up together! So now Kelly asks to see Karlee often, and we try to make special dates for them regardless of our work schedule!


We met Skye at our little local Leucadia park. Skye already had a ton of little friends that she would be playing with, but she'd always try to include Kelly. And soon Kelly was playing with the group too. Skye also has a little baby brother, Caspian, who Kelly enjoyed oohing and ahhing over. Because we just live down the street from each other, Skye and Kelly (and Caspian) spent a good deal of time together this summer at the park, at the beach, and at each other's homes when one or the other of us parents has needed a break. This has become a case where the kids brought two moms together (and now the dads too) who may not have otherwise met or became friends, so Kelly has helped me to expand my local circle of friends as well :-)


I was referred some new clients a few months ago through our USAA program at C21, and on their referral note it said they wanted a Realtor who was, (and I quote) "comfortable and personable, don't have to be overly proper - a little loose, can take a joke. Somebody fun!!! A help with the stress factor." I was pretty excited to call them - I knew they'd probably be great people and that I'd probably be what they're looking for! What I didn't know was that they also had a great little 4-year-old daughter named Krysta that was as cool and fun as they were. When they asked if I minded Krysta coming along to look at homes.... I took the opportunity to bring Kelly along as well.

So Kelly & Krysta's first few "play dates" together were really househunting trips, but they became fast friends and were good little househunting troopers. We kept saying we should get them together outside of "work", and finally, we have. They enjoy playing together for longer periods of time where they can really have some fun without having to constantly get in and out of a car, go in and out of houses and not touch anything!



I think some of my influence certainly does make an impression and is helping to mold her, but honestly, I believe Kelly has an innate sense of the virtues of friendship and I can see that she values and truly loves being with her friends... as much as I do with mine!